The Many Faces of Pleasure: From Safety to Ecstasy
When we talk about pleasure, most people think of the obvious: sex, touch, climax, indulgence. The big stuff. The fireworks.
But pleasure doesn’t always announce itself that way.
Sometimes it whispers. Sometimes it arrives not as heat or intensity, but as relief.
The slow unfurling of a body that finally feels safe to be felt.
The quiet exhale that says, I don’t have to fight right now.
You May Already Feel Me Before You Know Me
Erotic Mystic. Pleasure-Coded Oracle. Timeline Activator.
I am Sharon Marie Scott.
I am a remembrance embodied. A living oracle of the turned-on life.
I’ve been called many powerful things—healer, mentor, sage, high priestess.
But the deeper truth?
I’m a Timeline Activator.
Your Pleasure Knows the Way Back
Maybe you’ve been exhausted lately. Feeling burnt out.
What if those sensations really just mean you’re overdo for reconnection—
With yourself.
With what lights you up. With your turn-on.
What Shame Stole From Me
They say the body never lies, but mine learned to stay silent by age six.
Not because it had nothing to say—but because every time it spoke, it was punished.
As an adult, I thought there was something wrong with me. I wanted pleasure. I craved intimacy. But every time I got close to it—truly close—my body would short-circuit.
It didn’t matter how loving the partner was, how sexy the moment, or how badly I wanted to feel.
Pain and Pleasure Are Just Stories. You Can Change the Ending
Most people believe pain and pleasure are opposites.
That pain should be avoided.
And pleasure should be chased.
But pain and pleasure aren’t opposites.
They’re siblings.
Two faces of the same force: sensation.
One contracts.
One expands.
But both are simply energy moving through the body.
Why Learning to Hold More Sensation Is the Key to Manifesting More Wealth, Love, and Success
What if I told you the amount of pleasure you can hold in your body directly determines how much wealth, love, and success you can hold in your life?
Most people don’t realize that the nervous system — not the mind — is the gateway to havingness.
Here’s why it matters:
All forms of abundance are experienced through the body. They are sensations.
Why Erotic Energy Is the Secret to Calling In the Life You Crave
I spent years doing all the “right” work.
Mindset.
Shadow work.
Somatic healing.
Nervous system regulation.
And yes — it helped.
But no matter how deep I went, there was still a place inside me that felt capped.
Your Pain Is Not Your Pleasure
You’ve heard it: “Your pain is your purpose.”
It sounds noble, even deep. And for a while, I believed it too.
But the deeper I’ve gone in mastering this reality — the more I see how this idea keeps people trapped.
Your pain is not your purpose.
The Magic is in the Intention
I heard something simple on a cooking competition show the other night:
“Food is magical. It has a way of healing you.”
And I found myself smiling because it’s true — but not just of food.
Touch is magical. It has a way of healing you.
A smile is magical. It has a way of healing you.
The sun is magical. It has a way of healing you.
Play is magical. It has a way of healing you.
In truth, there are countless ways we can be healed.
The deeper question is: what makes them so?
I believe the magic lives in our conscious intention and presence.
It’s not the food itself. It’s the love and care that go into its preparation.
Safety Isn’t Pleasure
It happens so often on this path.
Someone emerges from years of trauma, grief, or dysregulation.
They do the work to soothe their nervous system.
They learn to feel safe in their body again.
And it feels miraculous.
They think: “I finally feel safe. Isn’t that the goal?”
But here’s the truth most healing spaces won’t tell you:
Safety is not the summit. It’s the base camp.
Safety is a prerequisite for pleasure — but it is not the same thing as pleasure.
And if you stop there… you’ll never reach the exquisite life that your soul is truly here to taste.
Pleasure is a Technology
Pleasure is a technology.
Most people don’t realize this.
You designed your life with a highest possible storyline—a timeline where you are lit up, turned on, sovereign, and masterfully creating what you desire.
But with infinite possible choices, how do you know which steps will actually lead you there?
You can’t think your way to it. The mind isn’t wired for that.
But your body is.
Pleasure is a living guidance system.
It shows up as joy, freedom, and amusement.
As sensual spark and erotic yes.
When It Simply Doesn’t Hurt Anymore
Years ago, I was describing to a friend a moment of freedom I had felt after healing from a deep pain from my past.
She looked at me, confused, and said something like:
“But aren’t you just convincing yourself not to feel that way? Aren’t you kind of lying to yourself about how it hurt you?”
And I remember pausing, because I didn’t have the language back then to explain what had happened. All I knew was that something inside me had shifted, and the thing that used to feel like a heavy, hot weight in my chest… just didn’t anymore.
It’s easy to mistake emotional liberation for avoidance, but there is a huge difference between bypassing pain and releasing it.
Bypassing looks like pretending.
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