Why Would You Limit Your Toolbox?
Think of your spiritual journey like the beautiful art of Shibari rope bondage.
It’s not about the ropes themselves—it’s about how they’re tied.
Too tight, and you cut off circulation.
You numb sensation.
You lose the ability to feel anything but pressure.
Too loose, and you float—disconnected, ungrounded, never really dropping in.
Spiritual growth works the same way.
If you spend all your time diving into shadow work—endlessly revisiting the past, trying to fix and heal and understand—you’re tying your knots too tight. You might feel heavy, stuck, constantly processing but never arriving. Joy becomes something that lives on the other side of your wounds, and expansion always feels out of reach.
On the flip side, if you’re only focused on manifestation—mindset work, future visioning, staying high-vibe—you’re tying them too loose. You’re in the clouds, not the body. You’re disconnected from the parts of you that still need your presence. And even though you might be dreaming big, the unhealed patterns underneath quietly distort what you’re creating.
This is why I believe in using every tool. Especially the ones most people avoid.
That’s what taboo teaches you. It’s not just edgy or sexy—it’s efficient.
Taboo is a fast track into the places you’ve hidden from yourself.
The kink.
The shame.
The want.
It brings the body online. And it gives you EROTIC MEDICINE—a kind of healing that doesn’t happen by thinking harder, but by feeling deeper.
You cannot think your way out of what needs to be felt.
But you can use thought and feeling and sensation together.
Their synergy? Is your expansion.
This is the core of what I teach. Flesh and Flame starts the conversation—how pleasure is the portal to spiritual mastery.
My second book, which I haven’t even announced yet, goes deeper. Into the shadows, into the desires, into the sacred rebellion of using your whole self—not just the palatable parts—as your path to power.
Because true mastery is Shibari of the soul:
You need both containment and freedom.
Shadow and light.
Past and future.
Feeling and vision.
Anything less is a partial path.
And you? You were made for holding the full fucking thing.
In sovereign pleasure,
Sharon
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