When You Forget You’re the Game Designer
When life shifts—especially when it feels like everything’s unraveling—it’s easy to slip into the story that the universe is doing something TO you.
Maybe you’ve lost something. A relationship, an identity, a version of your life that once felt solid.
Maybe you feel blindsided, like the rug’s been pulled out from under you.
Maybe part of you wants to scream, “Why is this happening?”
But here’s the truth most of us forget in those moments: YOU wrote this storyline.
Not from the part of you that’s afraid or uncertain.
Not from your survival programming or childhood wounds.
But from the part of you that remembers.
From the part of you that is Source-born.
You—your God-self, your highest expression, the one who sees across timelines—crafted this moment long before you incarnated.
Not as punishment.
Not as chaos.
But as a portal.
A portal to expansion. To deeper self-love. To that rare flavor of greatness that isn’t about fame or achievement, but about becoming so deeply in love with yourself and your life that even the mundane feels like ceremony.
Like celebration.
Like you are the celebrity of your own world.
So yes—when life collapses, let yourself grieve.
Cry. Scream. Be stunned by the loss.
But don’t set up camp there. Because there is always a clearing ahead.
Not one that’s given to you by the universe like a reward…
But one you planted yourself, like a breadcrumb on the path home.
This isn’t a path that’s unfolding for you.
It’s a path you DESIGNED.
And the more you remember that, the faster you rise above victim consciousness and step back into your rightful role:
Creator.
We’re taught to fear change. To cling to predictability as if sameness equals safety.
But the soul craves evolution.
Your own highest self—your oversoul, your God-Self—is the one orchestrating these shifts.
They’re like the perfect Dominant:
Not cruel.
Not forceful.
But firm in their devotion to your becoming.
They create the space for you to choose, to discover, to remember your power—on your own terms.
So the next time the ground trembles beneath you, ask:
What if this isn’t a collapse, but a sacred rewrite?
What if this discomfort is actually the friction of you growing into MORE of yourself?
What if this moment is sacred?
You’re not being punished. You’re being summoned.
Not into survival.
But into sovereignty.
And all you have to do is listen.
In sovereign design,
Sharon
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