The Body Remembers Ecstasy, Too
We’ve been taught to trust the mind above all. To look for answers in logic and language.
But the body?
The body knows first.
It speaks in sensation. It remembers what the mind can’t yet name.
Most have heard of The Body Keeps the Score—the idea that trauma lives in the nervous system.
And yes, it does.
But so does pleasure.
So does ecstasy.
So does that moment your whole system said YES, even if your brain hadn’t caught up yet.
This is the kind of wisdom I write about in Flesh & Flame—
Not just healing through pain, but awakening through pleasure.
Not using the body as a battlefield, but reclaiming it as a living temple.
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I once witnessed an intense kink scene that involved broken skin and rubbing alcohol. The scene ended with the receiver (a joyful masochist) in a state of total bliss—eyes rolled back, body melted in ecstasy.
I felt her pleasure ripple through me like lightning. Not just as a voyeur, but as an empath.
My body took it in.
Weeks later, I found myself flushed and aroused in the most random places:
A doctor’s office.
The dentist.
In line at a grocery store.
It took a while before I realized what was happening.
Each space carried the scent of rubbing alcohol (also an ingredient in hand sanitizer at the entrance of the grocery store). Before my mind made the connection, my body was already remembering.
That’s the power of the flesh.
It imprints.
It awakens.
It knows your truth before you do.
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Your body isn’t just a container for wounds.
It’s an oracle.
A portal.
A divine instrument tuned to pleasure.
The old paradigm of spirituality says: transcend the flesh.
I say: IGNITE IT.
This is what Flesh & Flame is about—
Reclaiming the body as sacred.
Following your pleasure as a spiritual path.
And trusting that turn-on isn’t a distraction. It’s a direction.
So the next time your body lights up before your mind understands why—
Trust it.
Taste it.
Let it lead you.
That’s where the fire lives.
In sovereign pleasure,
Sharon
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