When One-Sided is Sacred
There was a time I believed love meant proving I was worthy of being chosen.
A time when I chased connection, thinking it was intimacy and forever love I craved—but what I was really longing for was MYSELF.
That ache we feel for the Other is often the ache for the forgotten self, the one we left behind when we learned it wasn’t safe to be the center of our own world.
And so I met a lover. Someone whose desire, and libido, mirrored mine in a way that felt affirming—as if finally my own pleasure and hunger belonged.
But as I became truly devoted to myself and my wholeness this last year—something changed. I began loving myself more than I loved being wanted. I began choosing my own pleasure, not just offering pleasure to others.
And in that turning… they left.
They said our play had become one-sided.
And I realized they were right.
It had become one-sided.
And it needed to. Because my "service" before had come from an energy of unworthiness.
For the first time, my life was centered around me—not from ego, but from a deep, sacred hunger to finally meet and cherish myself.
And here is the irony: it was in the fullness of that self-devotion that I became more naturally generous, more grounded, more loving to others.
Because I'd finally focused on myself enough to create and GIVE FROM THE OVERFLOW.
When the wounded hunger is fed, the heart opens.
The giving becomes effortless, and the authenticity of self becomes magnetic.
That ending, that loss, revealed something profound: the journey home is never about being picked—
it’s about picking yourself again and again until your very existence becomes a living “yes.”
From that place, everything transforms.
Through my spiritual awakening,I have been granted many remembrances centered around SPIRITUAL MASTERY THROUGH PLEASURE.
I’ll be sharing more soon about the sacred erotic mysteries, but today, I’m sharing the foundation of it all: the path of HIEROS-GAMOS.
The Hieros-Gamos journey, or the Sacred Union journey, has been shown to me through three pillars of divine wisdom:
1. Sacred Union with Self – the return to the God within.
2. Sacred Union with Other – experiencing the sacred mirror of relationship.
3. Sacred Union with All – realizing oneness with the cosmos, co-creating our reality.
We are in a very special time. I know, as a collective, we’re feeling it.
These are not just romantic concepts. They are living initiations that I have shared in other lifetimes - but never all together in ONE lifetime.
What I have to offer—what I’m MEANT to offer the world—is an accelerated path to enlightenment.
And I’m not hiding anymore.
Flesh & Flame is already birthed. It’s a game-changer. Forbidden Alchemy is already with my publisher.
And I’m only just getting started.
If you want to be the first to know when it drops, reach out to me with your email address and I’ll put you on the list.
I’m so excited to finally see my path so clearly.
In full unapologetic sovereignty,
Sharon
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