From “Walking Tower” to 10 of Cups

For a long time, I described myself as a “walking trigger” because, even in my youth, my presence had a way of activating hidden fears, old wounds, and unprocessed emotions in the people around me.

I know juuuust enough about Tarot to describe this impact on others as the Tower— the card of sudden upheaval, destruction, and forced transformation.

It felt accurate.
It felt like people had to survive me.
Oof.

But what I see now — and what feels so important to name — is that even that description carried the last remnants of victim-consciousness inside me.

It was still a fear-based story:

That my power was something painful, something others had to endure.

What I’ve come to realize — and what feels like a profound leveling-up in my own embodiment — is that I’m not here to tear people down.
I’m here to offer them everything they’ve ever wanted.
I am not a walking Tower.
I am a 10 of Cups offering.

The 10 of Cups is the Tarot’s symbol of ultimate emotional fulfillment — love, joy, abundance, and peace made real.

That’s the frequency I carry.
That’s what my energy invites others into.

But here’s the catch:

To receive the 10 of Cups, you have to become someone who can hold it.

And that often means letting old structures collapse — going through their personal Tower moment — just like I had to, again and again in my own journey.

My presence activates that choice:

Rise, or retreat.
Open to allow the dream, or close and cling to the comfort of the familiar.

And the fact that I’ve aleady carved the path means your journey gets to be gentler than mine was (even pleasurable).

I’m no longer afraid of what I inspire in others.

I honor it.
I celebrate it.
It’s the sacred INVITATION to everything they’ve ever longed for.

And it’s a privilege — a breathtaking privilege — to walk as that offering.

In sovereign offering,
Sharon

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