Bridging the Gap Between Spirit and Eros
There’s been a quiet shift inside me over the past year.
At first, it was subtle. I noticed that the pull I used to feel toward eroticism, kink, and sensual community began to feel… less urgent. Not gone. Not less important. But the hunger changed. The urgency softened.
For years, my erotic expression was core. It was how I breathed, healed, remembered. It was where I felt my power, my truth, and my essence.
Sex and sensuality were my gateway to wholeness.
And in many ways, they still are.
But something has shifted.
What I crave most now isn’t just erotic charge—it’s depth.
And attunement.
It’s energetic alignment with something bigger than the moment, bigger than the body.
I still LOVE sex. I still love kink. But now I need more presence in it.
More coherence.
More reverence woven into the play.
I want to feel the meaning behind the moment. The transmission in the touch.
And what I’m realizing is that very few communities know how to hold both.
In the spiritual spaces I’ve been part of, there seem to be two extremes:
On one end, there’s the sanitized version—where everything is love and light and your erotic self is either bypassed or gently shamed into silence.
On the other, there’s a kind of performative sensuality—one that talks about integration, but isn’t truly living it. Often, it’s just hookup culture in spiritual clothing. (By the way, one time encounters can absolutely have the depth I’m describing. It’s just about how much presence and trust a person can bring for themselves in the encounter,)
In contrast, the kink and sensuality spaces I’ve loved are playful, permissive, and alive… but often missing that deeper thread of soul intimacy.
Of frequency attunement.
Of remembrance.
So, as I’ve done SO many times before, I find myself walking between worlds—
Foraging where there’s no map.
Building what I wish existed.
And calling in community that feels like home to all parts of me.
That’s the space I’m stepping into now—
A life and a community who doesn't project their fears onto people like me.Who welcomes my muchness to the altar.
And if you’re also longing for that space, if you’re holding desires that don’t fit neatly into any one paradigm, know this:
You’re not too much.
You’re not alone.
And the frequency we’re creating together?
It’s going to change everything.
In sovereign attunement,
Sharon
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