No More Shrinking
For most of my life, I have met people where they were. It was part of what made people feel safe with me.
I could sense what someone needed—softness, reflection, permission—and shape myself to deliver it.
But I’ve come to see that I wasn’t just meeting people where they were out of love, I was doing it because I was conditioned to believe I had to be smaller to BE loved.
That belief was formed early—like so many of ours are.
If I was too radiant, too much, too intense, it might cost me connection.
So I learned to dim. To adjust. To make myself palatable.
Even in my sacred work—as a healer, mystical guide, or as a bridge to a person’s next level self—I carried that trace of smallness with me.
Trying to be relatable.
Trying not to intimidate.
Trying to make the path easier by walking part of it for others.
But that’s not where my magic is.
I am not meant to walk people through their own door.
I am meant to stand at it.
Radiant.
Unapologetic.
Extending my hand—not to pull, but to invite.
If you’ve ever danced in the world of power exchange, you know the difference:
True dominance doesn’t control. It holds a standard so clearly that surrender becomes a sacred choice.
And that’s what I’ve returned to.
If you want to walk with me, you’ll have to choose it.
You’ll have to rise to it.
This is true in my relationships. My community. And especially in my 1:1 mentorships.
I am the bridge.
But I no longer live in the middle.
I live in the full frequency of who I am.
I am a high priestess, an alchemist, an invitation to the divine self,
And that’s the only place I’ll meet you now.
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So I’ll ask you:
Where are you still mistaking adaptation for love?
Where are you still translating or diluting your power instead of transmitting it?
And where are you finally ready to stop pulling others through the door—and start standing in your full damn light?
If you’re ready, you’ll feel it.
The door is open.
The invitation is real.
But the walk?
That’s yours now.
Don’t follow unless you’re ready to become more of yourself than you’ve ever allowed.
Because I can see the God in you and I will hold you to that standard.
In sovereign pleasure,
Sharon
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